Whatever my current obsession is
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    I don't know if anyone has pointed this out before, but I can't stop noticing how, after Rio tells Agatha 'that boy isn't yours,' Agatha takes a moment to really look at her. She moves away slightly, her gaze slowly tracing Rio’s features—starting from her eyes, then drifting down to her chin, lips, nose, and then back up again. It’s almost as if, in that moment, she’s seeing their son in Rio’s face. And the way Rio looks at Agatha—completely lost in her, so utterly in love—it's just too much… I’m going to cry😭😭😭

  • Friendships as a teenager: we used to talk 5 hours every night now it’s down to 3… are we still friends 🤔? I wonder if they don’t like me anymore

    Friendships as an adult: omg I’ve finally cleared up 20 minutes of my schedule to talk to my friend I haven’t spoken to in 4 months #bffs #we will find eachother in every life

  • I’m still so taken aback by people in the notes who claimed you need to be talking to people weekly or even daily to consider them your friend. how many people do you know? As an adult I feel like talking every day is sustainable with one person maybe 2 or 3 if your circumstances somehow are really conveniently aligned. yeah there’s people I talk to often there’s also people I don’t talk to for 6 months because there’s no way we’ll be able to coordinate time and energy and I still consider them my friends because this is real life and there isn’t a stardew valley esque hearts system based off of how many interactions we had this month

  • just fyi by the time youre in your 30s, most of the people you would call to help you cover up a murder are the people you text about twice a year. it's specifically because you can maintain the relationship on two texts a year that they are your closest friends. the reason everyone's interpersonal relationships are so unstable in your teens is because everyone's "best friends" are almost entirely circumstantial. you won't actually know which of those people are in for the long haul until the relationships have been stress tested by distance, conflict and silence.

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